Now back to regular scheduled programming :-)
Alright so yesterday things had to be said and done. I was planning this big update, but that sort of didn’t happen. I guess that is how it goes.
So how is it going in the life of Yvo other then being involved in other people’s problems.
Things are going well. Organizing to move is a big pain though. Next Saturday & Sunday is the big day. The cable guy is going to install my internet on Friday between noon and 4pm. Problem is that I won’t get out of work until 1:30 and probably not in that area until at least 2:15-2:30ish. So I was going to have Cam guard the premises for me the first 2 hours. However she is scheduled to work at her Apple job from 12 to 4. Maybe she can switch with someone else, but I don’t that that is possible. It is her new job and all so I would feel terrible if I had her tell her new job “I have to stay at home and wait for the cable guy.” In all honesty that would be a horrid thing to do. However it is just one of the many things we shall tackle.
Other then planning the move, nothing major is going on. Right now I am working ‘bitch’ shifts at work from 5am to 1:30, Fridays to Tuesdays. Definitely not the easiest schedule to date. I think Cam is having harder issues then me with it though. She always wants to talk at night and right now I can’t. Like last night, things didn’t go well between the two of us. Sometimes I really think there is this major communication gap between us. She says there is nothing wrong yet I feel the atmosphere is tense. She gets tense really easily as well by her surroundings, just like me. So when she does something out of the ordinary, such as sitting on the bed just doing nothing… it gets me all tensed up as it isn’t normal behavior.
Which brings me to the next subject and that is the disrespectful behavior of my brother towards Cam. Tjakko really doesn’t treat her with any decency and respect. In our family it is already known that Tjakko is going to be the type that demands a nuclear family (read: wife stays at home to take care of the 2.3 kids). However he is treating Cam like trash. Cam, who doesn’t know my brother very well, does a lot of things for him such as hand him free food (hey $6 saved due to no Taco Bell should be appreciated) or doing the wash. Apparently my brother threw a typical girl bitch fit, that my mom is known for doing, towards Cam about locking doors. The first night it was all my fault because I was downstairs last and was too lazy to do it (I’ll admit it) and the second night Cam was sitting on the couch and my brother asked her if she could lock the door. Hello… WHY DON’T YOU LOCK THE DAMN DOOR. I mean seriously, you just came through the damn thing because you got back from a Mariners game. Things will remained unresolved until Tjakko sincerely apologizes for his behavior and starts acting differently. I really don’t know what gave him the idea to contact the parents when he never fares well against them when they are on vacation. So in conclusion, people have to be more tolerant of one another. This includes myself as well, but others also. This could have all been avoided simply if people were more tolerant of one another.
Trying to get back into fun stuff. Cam and I have been spending a good chunk of time together. Right now were both busy due to work and our conflicting schedules, but the time we do have, we spend together. This past week we went to Coulon where I hadn’t been in a year or so. We had a a picnic that Cam prepared on one of the tables and then we walked around for a while. It was fun stuff.
A day before that she made delicious pasta. Boy I am a lucky SOB that she can cook. That I am sure about.
Anywho… things are looking bright for the upcoming few weeks. It is going to be a little scary moving out but I think Cam and I will do fine together. I just wish she could explain her feelings a little bit better to me instead of her Xanga, that and the fact that she has a hard time brushing things off. She has to do activities from working to sleeping in order to brush things off. I don’t know… talking usually helps for me, maybe she is different. That is my biggest concern when we live together. Not money, but our communication. None the less I love her very much and I know we will get through it.
Later gator,
Yvo
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